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GETTING THAT BABY READY F0R
THE Wild Blue Yonder
byDeborah Luper Wyndsong
Shelties
Sometimes when ‘Keeper” suddenly sees anything big and
dark (a Porsche 911,
a pile of truck tires,
firewood, whatever) he lets out a series of sharp barks, tucks his butt and
scoots away. What I love about this little dog, however, is that he always comes
back, sniffs his way carefully up to the monster, determines that it’s okay and
trots off like he’s too big for his britches and was actually just putting on a
show for my amusement. It never fails to
put his mommy rolling on the ground laughing, which is not always a good
reaction. For one thing, that’s a fail-safe way to get yucky, smelly spots on
your clothes. One of the most
important things you can do for your Sheltie puppy is to socialize him early on.
What does this mean? Cocktails at six or black tie? Putting the napkin on the
lap? No, it means that you train your new little baby, through interesting and
sometimes frightening experiences, that life happens and they’d best get used to
it! Wait a minute—that
sounds a teensy bit mean. Actually, it isn’t meant to sound harsh at all. A
well-socialized puppy becomes a confident adult—both a fine, sensible companion
and a dog that is less likely to be unnecessarily frightened by life’s hard, and
often loud, knocks. And as you well know, it knocks often and at the most
inconvenient times!
How is this accomplished you ask? It’s actually a lot
easier and more enjoyable than you might think. I for one take my babies
everywhere I possibly can, right from the get-go. As soon as I am confident that
they are up to speed on their immunizations (around
12
weeks), I take them in the truck with me to puppy
classes and adult classes (they get to sit in a crate and watch), and when they
are confident on the end of a lead, to the airport, the park, etc. I take the
puppy to work with me and lead him around to meet my coworkers in the building.
It helps if your co-workers are warned and armed with little pieces of cheese or
other bits of bribery. My puppies invariably say, “Ooooo!!! Another softie!
Let’s go meet her, Mom!” These places all
offer strange sights, sounds and smells that excite and stimulate your puppy.
This is very good for him, especially if you treat each new experience as though
it were completely normal. If your puppy runs to you, entreating you to pick him
up, stand there and speak to him in a normal voice. Make sure your voice sounds
pleasant and unconcerned, even happy. If something frightening happens, such as
books falling down the stairs, I will sometimes even laugh as though enjoying
the situation (not as though I were laughing at the dog—there is a difference,
and I believe dogs can be humiliated by laughter directed at them, just as
humans can). If the situation is
too much for your little darling, distract him with a toy or treat. If it
doesn’t go well, calmly take the puppy away from the situation and try again in
a few days or a week. It’s amazing how much change can occur in such a short
time. Remember, it can be
heartbreaking to stand there and refuse to pick your sweet baby up. It may be
difficult to keep that pleasant, relaxed tone in your voice. However, in the
long run, the good you will do for your dog is immense! I have found
Shelties to be the most intuitive of dogs—they pick up on our emotions very
easily. If we are frightened or disturbed, so are they. If we look on a
situation with calmness or humor, it’s amazing how quickly they can come around
to the same viewpoint. If you ignore an alarming situation as if it weren’t
there, often the puppy will learn to take the same attitude. Each dog’s
personality and learning style is unique to him, however, so try to discern
those differences and realize that you may have to customize your approach to
accommodate them. ALWAYS reward your baby for good
behavior. Doggie treats (just a morsel will do), warm and effusive praise or a
belly scratch are all wonderful ways to make your little friend feel like he’s
king of the mountain. Also, don’t over stimulate your puppy in an effort to get
him used to all of
life’s challenges at once. They are tiny babies, after
all, and need breaks and naps just like a human child. Attention spans are also
quite limited in very young puppies. A few minutes a time is sufficient to begin
with. By the time he is four five months old, he will be emotionally equipped to
begin classes where he can learn simple obedience exercises to
get along with others
of his kind. In
my humble opinion, I
believe well-intentioned folks make mistakes in certain ways. They “baby” their
new darling to reassure the dog in a
manner that convinces the puppy he was right (that WAS a big and awful
monster!), or they don’t put the baby into the “frying pan” often enough. Each
time the puppy faces up to something dark and threatening, loud, startling, or
whatever the case may be, he comes away a more experienced, confident dog, as
long as the situation is treated correctly. Shelties are far too
wonderful as companions to leave at home. They make fabulous traveling buddies
and are delight to have around in virtually every situation. I even one of my
dogs flying with me when I take a plane up pleasure flight. There is something
absolutely special in up
there “all alone” in the
wild blue yonder and in being look over at your best bud, scratch him behind the
ears, es, even talk to him! Whether it’s on a walk in the park, a visit to
someone’s or strutting his stuff in the show ring, it is only fair to your
sheltie that you help him to develop the confidence he to face life’s
interesting and sometimes intimidating events head-on, It will make his life and
yours more and fulfilling. Now get out there with your little friend, meet life
face to face and get used to it! Puppy socialization can be a lot of fun for both owner
and puppy! The
Rule Of Seven By
the time a puppy is 7 weeks old, it should have: 1.
been on 7 different surfaces: carpet, concrete, wood, vinyl, grass, dirt,
gravel, woodchips, etc...... 2.
played with 7 different types of objects: big balls, small balls, soft fabric
toys, fuzzy toys, squeaky toys, paper or cardboard items, metal items, wooden
items, milk jugs, etc....... 3.
been in 7 different locations: front yard, back yard, basement, kitchen, car,
garage, laundry room, bathroom, crate, kennel, etc.... 4.
met and played with 7 new people: include children and older adults. 5.
been exposed to 7 challenges: climb on a box, climb off a box, go through a
tunnel, climb steps, go down steps, climb over obstacles, play hide and
seek, go in and out a doorway with a step up or down, run around a
fence.... 6.
Eaten from 7 different containers: metal, plastic, cardboard, paper, china, pie
plate, frying pan, etc.... 7.
Eaten in 7 different locations: crate, yard, kitchen, basement, laundry room,
bathroom, x-pen, etc...
Written by Pat Schaap
"All
creatures great and small, the Lord God created them all."
Every time I
lose a dog he takes a piece of my heart. Every new dog gifts me with a piece of
his.
Someday my heart will be total dog, and maybe then I will be just as
generous, loving and forgiving. - Unknown